2007-10-27

Two Days in Paris - 巴黎二日情

這是比較冷門的片,故事很簡單,就是一個法國女孩帶美國籍 BF 到故鄉巴黎的事。在停留的日子裡不斷地遇到女孩的 EX-BF,讓 BF 對這段戀情質疑的故事。



看完片後想到一首歌
張洪量的花蝴蝶
     忽隱又忽現 流連花叢間
     你如此多戀 嬉戲不成眠
     何時才疲倦 不飛舞狩獵
     我不能了解 總是暗傷悲
   *你像隻蝴蝶在天上飛
     飛來飛去飛不到我身邊
     我只能遠遠痴痴望著你
     盼啊望啊你能歇一歇
     你像隻蝴蝶在天上飛
     飛來飛去飛不到我身邊
     我只能日日夜夜等著你
     想啊念啊你能停一會
     忽醒又忽睡 等你入夢內
     你如此不覺 使我不成眠
     何時動情絃 別付諸流水
     你不能體會 猶然獨喜悅
     重唱 *
     你像隻蝴蝶 飛來飛去飛
     我只能遠遠 盼啊望啊你能歇一歇
     忽隱又忽現 流連花叢間
     你如此多戀 嬉戲不成眠

不曉得是不是法國人生性浪漫,女主角感覺上就像花蝴蝶一樣,有著許多風流韻事,也能很大方地和前來幫忙的消防隊員聊天。相較之下,男主角比較拘謹,面對女方的外向,再加上 EX-BF 們的賊頭賊腦,他就慌了,但從女方的內心 OS 裡可以看出,她很多 white lie ,都是為了保護現任 BF,不讓他想太多,但這種善意的謊言一旦被發現,卻會讓男方覺得女方不值得信任。

還有一個差異點在於雙方對 EX 的處理方式,男方是分手後就當不成朋友了,女方則是分手後還是好朋友。與其說這是美國與法國的差異,不如說跟個人的把持力與信念有關吧。

對我來講,曾經覺得分手後當然還是可以當好朋友呀,畢竟當初也是從好朋友進展到男女朋友的關係,但實際幾個例子 run 下來..(←好職業病的說法呀),發現也是因人、因時而異。

另外一個看了很悵然的台詞是下面這一段
It always fascinated me how people go from loving you madly to nothing at all, nothing. It hurts so much. When I feel someone is going to leave me, I have a tendency to break up first before I get to hear the whole thing. Here it is. One more, one less. Another wasted love story. I really love this one. When I think that its over, that I'll never see him again like this... well yes, I'll bump into him, we'll meet our new boyfriend and girlfriend, act as if we had never been together, then we'll slowly think of each other less and less until we forget each other completely. Almost. Always the same for me. Break up, break down. Drunk up, fool around. Meet one guy, then another, fuck around. Forget the one and only. Then after a few months of total emptiness start again to look for true love, desperately look everywhere and after two years of loneliness meet a new love and swear it is the one, until that one is gone as well. There's a moment in life where you can't recover any more from another break-up. And even if this person bugs you sixty percent of the time, well you still can’t live without him. And even if he wakes you up every day by sneezing right in your face, well you love his sneezes more than anyone else's kisses.

好寫實的描述呀,如果再把小說藍與黑的開白拉進來看的話

一個人,一生只戀愛一次,是幸福的。
不幸,我剛剛比一次多了一次


和不同的人,一直不斷地重覆相仿的戀愛過程,也真是會厭倦的呀。不曉得,究竟一個人要談過幾次戀愛,得過多少次教訓,才能真的覓得真愛、尋得真心人呢?

談愛情的電影,對現在的我而言,真是無力 ing。腦袋已經空掉了......。

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